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🌿 CHARITY & CONSCIOUS CIRCULATION A Practical Guide to How Much We Should Give

Writer: Nandhini Priya
Nandhini Priya
Aug 21
10 min read

Over the last 4–5 years, I have been closely observing and assessing the lives of many people.

During this period, I noticed a recurring pattern.

People earn, save, buy property, accumulate gold, purchase clothes, accessories, vehicles, gadgets and many other material comforts.

There is nothing wrong with having abundance.

But I repeatedly observed that when everything was only coming into a person’s life and being accumulated, without enough consciously flowing out towards others, some form of unexpected outflow often appeared later.

It may show up as:

  • unnecessary expenses

  • repeated repairs

  • sudden financial commitments

  • unexpected medical spending

  • loss or damage

  • unplanned family expenses

  • continuous small money leakages

  • mental stress connected with money

  • one expense ending and another beginning

I do not present this as a scientifically proven law.

This is a personal observation and working principle that developed after studying many lives over several years.

My understanding is simple:

Whatever comes into our life should not stop completely with us. A part of it should continue to circulate.

We may not fully understand the mechanism behind this.

But I have started looking at abundance in this way:

If something comes to me, I should use it consciously, enjoy it gratefully, keep what genuinely serves me, and allow a portion of it to benefit another life.


1. WHY CHARITY MAY BE PART OF OUR RESPONSIBILITY

We live inside a larger system.

We use:

  • society

  • infrastructure

  • nature

  • people’s labour

  • opportunities

  • knowledge

  • resources

  • relationships

  • systems created by generations before us

In the same way that we pay taxes to a government for participating in a social structure, I feel that there may also be a personal responsibility attached to abundance itself.

Not as punishment.

Not as fear.

But as participation.

When we receive, we also allow something to flow back.

This is what I call Conscious Circulation.


2. WHAT MAY HAPPEN WHEN CIRCULATION IS MISSED?

From what I have observed, when a person continuously:

  • earns but never gives

  • keeps accumulating without sharing

  • buys more while old useful things remain unused

  • holds wealth without any conscious contribution

  • keeps increasing material comfort without increasing responsibility

life often seems to create some form of outflow anyway.

It may come through:

  • unnecessary spending

  • repairs

  • replacement

  • damaged things

  • repeated expenses

  • emergencies

  • financial leakage

  • obligations we did not plan for

I am not saying:

“You did not give charity, therefore this problem happened.”

That would be an unfair conclusion.

Health, finance and relationships are influenced by many real-world factors.

But after observing the pattern repeatedly, I believe it is worth testing one principle in our own life:

Instead of allowing abundance to leave only through random and stressful expenses, consciously allow some of it to leave through meaningful giving.

Then observe what changes.


3. CHARITY SHOULD NOT COME FROM FEAR

This is extremely important.

Do not think:

“If I don’t give, the Universe will punish me.”

And do not think:

“If I give the correct amount, I will never have illness, loss or difficulty.”

That is not the purpose.

Charity should come from:

  • gratitude

  • responsibility

  • abundance

  • awareness

  • compassion

  • non-attachment

  • willingness to participate in the larger flow of life

The healthier thought is:

“I have received. Therefore, I will consciously allow some of what I received to benefit another person.”


4. THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF CHARITY

A. CIRCULATING THE THING ITSELF

Some possessions can simply move to another person when we no longer need them.

Examples:

  • dresses

  • footwear

  • handbags

  • accessories

  • books

  • toys

  • children’s clothes

  • furniture

  • appliances

  • phones

  • household items

In such cases, we do not always need to compensate with money.

We can circulate the object itself.


B. COMPENSATING THROUGH MONEY

Some things cannot practically be circulated.

Examples:

  • a house

  • land

  • gold that we want to retain

  • investments

  • savings

  • a car we continue to use

  • valuable permanent assets

For these, we may consciously allocate a percentage towards charity.


5. MONTHLY INCOME

This should be the foundation of the system.

Suggested Charity:

5% of net personal income

Example:

Monthly income: ₹1,00,000

5% charity:

₹5,000

If monthly income is ₹2,00,000:

₹10,000

If monthly income is ₹5,00,000:

₹25,000

Flexible range

If someone is financially struggling:

1–2%

If financially stable:

5%

If highly abundant:

7.5–10%

The percentage should create responsibility, not financial instability.

Monthly Check

  • Did I give something from this month’s income?

  • Was it close to my chosen percentage?

  • Am I increasing my giving as my abundance increases?


6. CLOTHES

Clothes are one of the easiest things to circulate.

The principle is:

Use it well. Enjoy it. Then release it while it is still useful.

Do not wait until:

  • it is torn

  • faded beyond use

  • badly damaged

  • completely unusable

If you have used a dress for a reasonable period and later stop using it, donate it while another person can still enjoy it.

Check

  • Have I used this dress enough?

  • Am I still genuinely wearing it?

  • Has another dress replaced it?

  • Is it still in good condition?

  • Can another person use it now?

If yes:

CIRCULATE IT.

This is meaningful giving.

Giving something only after it becomes useless is closer to disposal than charity.


7. BAGS, SHOES, WATCHES & ACCESSORIES

Use the same rule.

If you still use it:

Keep it.

If you have replaced it and no longer use it:

Circulate it.

If it has been unused for several months, ask:

“Am I keeping this because I genuinely need it, or simply because I own it?”

If there is no real use or meaningful memory attached to it, consider giving it to someone who can use it.


8. ELECTRONICS, APPLIANCES & FURNITURE

When upgrading:

New phone → old working phone can circulate.

New television → old functioning television can circulate.

New fridge → old usable fridge can circulate.

New furniture → older usable furniture can move to another home.

The principle is:

Do not wait until something loses all its value before giving it.

Let another person receive its remaining usefulness.


9. CHILDREN’S ITEMS

Children outgrow things very quickly.

Regularly check:

  • clothes

  • toys

  • books

  • cycles

  • furniture

  • school supplies

  • sports items

Once the child has genuinely outgrown or stopped using something, allow another child to benefit from it.

A few emotionally important items can of course be kept as memories.


10. MEMORY ITEMS

Not everything has to leave our life.

We may keep:

  • family photographs

  • letters

  • children’s memories

  • emotionally meaningful gifts

  • heirlooms

There is no need to feel guilty about keeping something genuinely meaningful.

But if the item also has substantial financial value, we can separately consider that financial value.

Example:

A grandmother’s gold jewellery may have deep emotional value.

You may keep it.

But because it is also stored wealth, its financial value can still be included in your annual wealth calculation.


11. GOLD & JEWELLERY

Gold is both:

  • a possession

  • stored wealth

If we continue to retain it, we can create circulation through charity.

Suggested Charity:

2.5% of current value annually

Example:

Gold value: ₹10 lakh

2.5% = ₹25,000 per year

Gold value: ₹20 lakh

2.5% = ₹50,000 per year

Gold value: ₹50 lakh

2.5% = ₹1,25,000 per year

If you prefer monthly charity:

₹1,25,000 ÷ 12


= approximately ₹10,417 per month

Check

  • Have I roughly calculated the current value of my gold?

  • Have I allocated something annually from that stored wealth?

  • If I bought additional jewellery this year, did I update the value?


12. CASH SAVINGS

Do not include every rupee saved.

First protect genuine necessities such as:

  • emergency fund

  • taxes

  • children’s immediate education needs

  • medical needs

  • debt obligations

  • essential family security

Then look at surplus accumulated savings.

Suggested Charity:

1–2.5% annually

For substantial surplus wealth, 2.5% can be used as a stronger benchmark.


13. INVESTMENTS

This can include:

  • fixed deposits

  • mutual funds

  • shares

  • bonds

  • other financial investments

Again, we should not destroy long-term financial security.

The principle is to recognise that retained financial abundance also deserves some circulation.

Suggested Charity:

1–2.5% annually

For substantial surplus investment wealth:

2.5% annually

You do not necessarily need to sell investments.

The charity can be paid from your income.


14. PRIMARY HOME

A house is different from liquid money.

A ₹1 crore house does not mean we have ₹1 crore available to spend every year.

So we should not apply a large annual percentage blindly.

Two practical methods are possible.

Option A — One-Time Contribution

When buying or building a home:

1% of acquisition/construction value

Example:

₹50 lakh house


→ ₹50,000 charity

₹1 crore house


→ ₹1 lakh charity

₹2 crore house


→ ₹2 lakh charity

OR

Option B — Small Annual Contribution

0.25% of approximate property value per year

Example:

₹1 crore home


→ ₹25,000 annually

₹2 crore


→ ₹50,000 annually

Choose one method according to your financial situation.

There is no need to unnecessarily apply both.


15. SECOND HOME OR INVESTMENT PROPERTY

An investment property represents accumulated wealth more clearly than the home we live in.

A reasonable benchmark is:

0.5% of current value annually

Example:

₹1 crore investment property


→ ₹50,000 annually

If the property generates rent, another simple approach is:

5% of net rental income

Avoid excessive double-counting.

Choose the method that reasonably reflects your level of abundance.


16. LAND

If land is simply held as an investment:

Suggested Charity:

around 0.5% annually

Example:

₹50 lakh land


→ ₹25,000 annually

If the land generates livelihood or farming income, you can instead calculate charity mainly from the income it produces.


17. CAR

A car is a depreciating asset and usually a utility.

So we should not treat it like gold.

When purchasing:

Suggested Charity:

1% one time

Example:

₹10 lakh car


→ ₹10,000

₹25 lakh car


→ ₹25,000

₹50 lakh car


→ ₹50,000

If you later replace the car, you may sell it, exchange it, give it within the family or donate it according to practicality.

Charity should remain responsible, not financially irrational.


18. LUXURY PURCHASES

Examples:

  • designer products

  • expensive watches

  • premium handbags

  • luxury jewellery

  • high-end gadgets

  • non-essential premium purchases

When we spend purely for pleasure, it is a good moment to remember another person’s need.

Suggested Charity:

around 2% of purchase value

Example:

₹1 lakh luxury purchase


→ ₹2,000 charity

₹5 lakh luxury purchase


→ ₹10,000 charity

Ask:

“If I can comfortably spend this amount for pleasure, can a small portion of the same abundance improve another life?”


19. WINDFALLS & UNEXPECTED MONEY

Examples:

  • unusually large bonus

  • inheritance

  • unexpected financial gain

  • major gift

  • sudden profit

Suggested Charity:

around 10%

Example:

₹10 lakh unexpected gain


→ ₹1 lakh

₹50 lakh gain


→ ₹5 lakh

This may be adjusted if the money is required for essential family security.


20. BUSINESS OWNERS

Do not calculate charity blindly from turnover.

Turnover is not profit.

Example:

Revenue: ₹1 crore


Net profit: ₹8 lakh

Giving 5% of turnover would be ₹5 lakh and may seriously affect the business.

A better method is:

5% of distributable/net profit

Example:

Annual profit: ₹20 lakh

5% charity:

₹1 lakh

In a very abundant year:

7.5–10% of profit

may be considered.

Business working capital, raw materials, machinery and inventory do not need to be separately “taxed” again if the business profit is already being used for the charity calculation.


21. DO NOT DOUBLE-COUNT EVERYTHING

This is very important.

Suppose you buy a house.

You do not need to:

  • give 1% while purchasing

  • then again 2.5%

  • then again count the same money under savings

  • then again count the same asset somewhere else

The purpose is conscious circulation, not mathematical punishment.

Use a simple and sustainable system.


22. MONTHLY CHARITY CALCULATION

A practical monthly formula is:

Monthly Charity Target

5% of Monthly Net Income

PLUS

Annual Wealth Contribution Ă· 12


Example

Monthly net income:

₹2,00,000

5%:

₹10,000

Gold value:

₹20 lakh

2.5% annually:

₹50,000

Monthly equivalent:

₹4,167

Surplus investments:

₹10 lakh

Assuming 2.5%:

₹25,000/year

Monthly equivalent:

₹2,083

Total approximate monthly giving:

₹16,250

Then clothes, appliances and other usable possessions can circulate separately whenever they are no longer required.


23. SIX-MONTH MATERIAL AUDIT

Every six months, walk through your home.

Check:

  • wardrobe

  • kitchen

  • children’s room

  • storage cupboards

  • jewellery

  • electronics

  • furniture

  • shoes

  • bags

  • accessories

  • books

  • unused gifts

For each item ask:

Am I using this?

If YES:

Keep it and enjoy it.

If NO:

Ask:

Does it have genuine emotional meaning?

If YES:

Keep it consciously.

If NO:

Ask:

Can someone else use it?

If YES:

Circulate it.


24. MONTH-END CHARITY CHECK

At the end of every month ask:

  • Did some part of my income circulate?

  • Did I meet my chosen charity percentage?

  • Did I make any major purchase this month?

  • If yes, did I remember to include a charity contribution?

  • Am I holding unnecessary clothes or possessions?

  • Did I give away anything useful while it was still in good condition?

  • Is my accumulated wealth also creating some outward flow?

  • Am I giving from gratitude instead of fear?

  • Is my giving helping someone in a meaningful way?


25. YEAR-END CHARITY CHECK

Once a year calculate:

Income

How much did I earn?

Charity

How much did I consciously give?

Gold

What is its approximate current value?

Investments

How much genuine surplus wealth have I accumulated?

Property

Did I acquire any new property or major asset?

Luxury

Did my lifestyle increase significantly?

Possessions

How much am I retaining without using?

Then ask:

“As my abundance increased this year, did my contribution also increase?”

This may be the most important question of all.


26. DO NOT USE CHARITY AS A WAY TO DISPOSE OF JUNK

Charity should preserve dignity.

Do not give:

  • torn clothes

  • unusable footwear

  • broken appliances

  • expired food

  • damaged products

  • things you would be embarrassed to use yourself

Give something because:

“This still has value, and I want another person to receive that value.”


27. WHO SHOULD RECEIVE?

Charity can support:

  • people struggling with food

  • children’s education

  • elderly people

  • people with disabilities

  • medical needs

  • single-parent families

  • people recovering from crisis

  • livelihood support

  • genuinely poor families

  • animal welfare

  • environmental causes

  • community welfare

Giving money is not the only option.

You can also give:

  • food

  • education

  • time

  • skills

  • employment

  • useful possessions

  • opportunities

The purpose is:

Abundance should create benefit beyond ourselves.


28. TEST THIS IN YOUR OWN LIFE

I do not ask anyone to blindly believe this framework.

Try it consciously.

Follow it for 6–12 months.

Observe:

  • Does your spending become more conscious?

  • Do unnecessary purchases reduce?

  • Do you accumulate less?

  • Do you feel lighter around possessions?

  • Does money feel less emotionally heavy?

  • Does giving become natural?

  • Do you experience more gratitude?

  • Do you notice fewer meaningless financial leakages?

  • Does your relationship with abundance become more peaceful?

Your own experience should become part of your understanding.


🌿 MY PERSONAL OBSERVATION

After observing many people’s lives for the last 4–5 years, I have increasingly felt that abundance works better when there is movement.

We may not yet understand every mechanism behind money, possessions, unexpected expenses and life events.

But one principle has become meaningful to me:

When something comes into my life, I do not want the entire flow to end with me.

I want to:

Receive consciously.

Enjoy gratefully.

Keep responsibly.

Give meaningfully.

Circulate continuously.


🌿 THE FINAL PRINCIPLE

Whatever I receive should either be used meaningfully, circulated when I no longer need it, or balanced through conscious giving when I continue to retain it.

RECEIVE → USE → ENJOY → RETAIN WHAT SERVES → CIRCULATE THE REST

Charity is not punishment.

Charity is not fear.

Charity is not a payment to escape problems.

Charity is our conscious participation in the circulation of abundance.

And rather than simply believing this principle:

Apply it in your own life. Observe it. Track it. And learn from your own experience.

 
 
 

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