WHY SOME PEOPLE FACE MORE CHALLENGES IN LIFE

Nandhini Priya
Dec 28, 2025
8 min read

Understanding Repeated Problems Using a Simple Energy Example

Many people ask this question at some point in life:

Why is my life full of problems?

Why do challenges keep repeating?

Why do others seem to live peacefully while I struggle?

Slowly this turns into negative thinking.

“I am unlucky.”

“Life is unfair to me.”

“Something is wrong with me.”

But most of the time, this understanding is incomplete.

Life is not punishing you.

Life isworking through energy.

EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS ENERGY

Think about electricity.

If electricity flows in a controlled way,

it gives light, fans, machines, and comfort.

If electricity flows without control,

it burns wires and causes damage.

Life works in the same way.

Your thoughts have energy.

Your emotions have energy.

Your reactions have energy.

Your relationships activate energy.

Some people live with low energy activation.

Some people live withhigh energy activation.

This is where most people misunderstand life.

WHY SOME PEOPLE HAVE HIGH ENERGY ACTIVATION

High energy activation does not mean a person is weak or unlucky.

It usually happens for three clear reasons.

1. When a person is meant to grow faster than their previous generation

In many families, life stays the same for generations.

Same thinking.

Same money problems.

Same emotional struggles.

When one person is meant to break this pattern and grow faster,

life cannot remain smooth.

Higher growth needs stronger force.

So life brings:

more challenges
more responsibility
more pressure
more opposite people

Not to punish the person,

but becausefast growth needs high energy.

Walking needs little energy.

Running needs more.

Flying needs very high force.

2. When a person has big goals, dreams, or leadership potential

People with small goals need small pressure.

But people who want to:

do something meaningful
help others
lead people
change their family’s future

cannot grow in an easy environment.

So life gives them:

difficult situations
opposite personalities
repeated tests

These are training situations, not problems.

3. When a person has done good deeds or has strong positive karma

Many people think good deeds bring comfort.

Sometimes they do.

But many times, good deeds bringspeed.

When life wants someone to grow quickly,

it increases the energy around them.

This feels like:

sudden changes
intense relationships
repeated challenges

Because life already knows:

this person can handle it.

High energy is never given to fragile systems.

THE MATTER–ANTIMATTER EXAMPLE

In nature, everything has an opposite.

Hot and cold.

Day and night.

Fast and slow.

In science, matter has an opposite called antimatter.

When matter and antimatter meet,

ahuge amount of energy is released.

That energy is not bad.

If handled properly, it becomes power.

If handled badly, it becomes destruction.

Life challenges work exactly like this.

WHY CHALLENGES COME INTO OUR LIFE

Challenges usually come as:

opposite people
opposite opinions
sudden losses or changes
emotional triggers

These are opposite energies meeting your energy.

This meeting activates a lot of energy inside you.

That energy must go somewhere.

WHAT MOST OF US DO WRONG

When problems come, most people immediately react.

They shout.

They cry.

They argue.

They blame.

They panic.

This is like touching high-voltage electricity with bare hands.

The energy leaks out as:

anger
fear
stress
emotional breakdown

After that, we feel tired.

Then we ask:

“Why is this happening again?”

HOW CLARITY ACTUALLY COMES

Meditation, Self-Awareness, and Charity

At this point, many people ask:

“How should I respond correctly?”

“How do I get clarity instead of confusion?”

Clarity does not come from thinking more.

It comes when themind becomes calm.

This is where three simple practices help.

Meditation: Slowing the Mind

When energy is high, the mind becomes noisy.

Too many thoughts.

Too many fears.

Too many emotions.

Meditation simply slows the mind.

When the mind slows:

reactions reduce
understanding improves
decisions become clearer

You don’t force answers.

They come naturally.

Self-Awareness: Watching Yourself

Self-awareness means noticing what is happening inside you.

You start seeing:

“I am angry now.”

“I am scared now.”

“My ego wants control now.”

The moment you see it clearly,

it loses power.

This acts like insulation.

Energy is present,

but it does not shock you.

Charity: Reducing Ego

Charity is not only about helping others.

It reduces ego.

When you give selflessly:

complaints reduce
entitlement reduces
gratitude increases

This makes you calmer.

Energy that could leak as anger

flows out positively through giving.

What Changes Because of These Practices

Problems still come.

Opposite people still appear.

But your response changes.

You respond instead of react.

You stay calm instead of explode.

You choose silence instead of argument.

This is how energy stops leaking

and starts strengthening you inside.

WHY PROBLEMS STILL REPEAT EVEN AFTER AWARENESS

This confuses many people.

“I stayed calm.

Why is it coming again?”

Because awareness has levels.

In the beginning, awareness needs effort.

Life repeats the situation to check:

Can you stay calm naturally now?

Each repetition becomes lighter.

Each recovery becomes faster.

This means:

energy is getting absorbed inside you, not wasted.

WHAT IS ACTUALLY HAPPENING INSIDE YOU

When energy is held:

your mind becomes stable
your confidence grows
your reactions reduce
your clarity improves

This is inner growth.

Quiet but permanent.

WHY SOME PEOPLE HAVE EASY LIVES

Some people face fewer problems because:

their energy activation is low
their life path is slow and stable

This is not better or worse.

Different people have different roles.

HOW TO FACE CHALLENGES FROM NOW ON

Instead of asking:

“Why is this happening to me?”

Ask:

“What is this trying to build inside me?”

Challenges are not here to break you.

They are here to prepare you.

FINAL REASSURANCE

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