
🌟 True wisdom is realising this simple truth…
- Nandhini Priya
- Dec 1, 2025
- 2 min read
Nobody is the reason for our life mishaps or mistakes.
It is just we.
We alone are responsible for our life’s sufferings.
Not our parents.
Not our partner.
Not our friends.
Not society.
Not circumstances.
Everything that hurts, breaks, or challenges us
begins withinour own mind, expectations, and interpretations.
And when this truth becomes clear,
a deeper understanding opens:
🌑 The Real Nature of Human Life
Every soul is born to live its own story,
learnits own lessons,
and walkits own pathin the game of life.
People appear mature, grown-up, and sensible…
but emotionally and spiritually
most humans function likechildren of 5–6 years.
They are still learning how to:
handle their own emotions
understand themselves
balance their reactions
grow through their karma
correct their own life
So how can they possibly understand our struggles
when they cannot even manage their own?
🧸 Humans Are Children — And Children Don’t Know How to Handle Other Children
When we make another person responsible for our:
happiness
pain
healing
peace
purpose
emotional security
clarity
stability
life direction
we are placing our delicate heart in the hands of someone
who is still confused about their own.
And just like a small child with a toy:
They pamper it sometimes
They break it sometimes
They throw it in frustration
They forget it
They ignore it
They get attracted to another toy
They damage it unintentionally
They hold it tightly one day
They drop it carelessly the next
Not because they are bad.
Not because they want to hurt us.
Not because we are not valuable.
But simply because they don’t know how to handle us.
They don’t have the maturity, awareness, or emotional strength.
🌺 The Real Mistake
The mistake is not on them.
The mistake is on us…
for expecting a child to take responsibility for our life.
We suffer because we assume:
“They should understand my pain.”
“They should fix my struggles.”
“They should treat me well.”
“They should give me peace.”
“They should be mature.”
But why should they?
They are children —
they don’t know better.
The moment we realise this,
blame dissolves
and clarity begins.
🌟 The Only True Caretaker: The Divine
There is only One
who knows how to hold our:
struggles
wounds
disappointments
heartbreak
loneliness
fears
karmic lessons
emotional baggage
and turn them into strength, purpose, and peace:
✨ The Divine.
The Divine understands every corner of our consciousness
in a way no human ever can.
When we surrender our life to the Divine,
we finally place our heart in thesafest hands.
The Divine guides the “children” around us,
protects our path,
aligns situations,
and corrects what needs correction
without letting us fall.
💛 The Final Realisation
“Humans are children in this game of life.
If we expect them to handle our pain or struggles,
they will treat us like toys — not out of cruelty,
but out of immaturity.”
Therefore:
Don’t blame anyone.
Don’t make anyone responsible.
Don’t expect anyone to rescue you.
Your life is your responsibility.
Your healing is your responsibility.
Your liberation is your responsibility.
And when you surrender that responsibility to the Divine,
You rise into a life that no child can shake.

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