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🌟 True wisdom is realising this simple truth…

  • Writer: Nandhini Priya
    Nandhini Priya
  • Dec 1, 2025
  • 2 min read

Nobody is the reason for our life mishaps or mistakes.


It is just we.


We alone are responsible for our life’s sufferings.

Not our parents.


Not our partner.


Not our friends.


Not society.


Not circumstances.

Everything that hurts, breaks, or challenges us


begins withinour own mind, expectations, and interpretations.

And when this truth becomes clear,


a deeper understanding opens:


🌑 The Real Nature of Human Life

Every soul is born to live its own story,


learnits own lessons,


and walkits own pathin the game of life.

People appear mature, grown-up, and sensible…


but emotionally and spiritually


most humans function likechildren of 5–6 years.

They are still learning how to:

  • handle their own emotions

  • understand themselves

  • balance their reactions

  • grow through their karma

  • correct their own life

So how can they possibly understand our struggles


when they cannot even manage their own?


🧸 Humans Are Children — And Children Don’t Know How to Handle Other Children


When we make another person responsible for our:

  • happiness

  • pain

  • healing

  • peace

  • purpose

  • emotional security

  • clarity

  • stability

  • life direction

we are placing our delicate heart in the hands of someone


who is still confused about their own.

And just like a small child with a toy:

  • They pamper it sometimes

  • They break it sometimes

  • They throw it in frustration

  • They forget it

  • They ignore it

  • They get attracted to another toy

  • They damage it unintentionally

  • They hold it tightly one day

  • They drop it carelessly the next

Not because they are bad.


Not because they want to hurt us.


Not because we are not valuable.

But simply because they don’t know how to handle us.

They don’t have the maturity, awareness, or emotional strength.


🌺 The Real Mistake


The mistake is not on them.


The mistake is on us…


for expecting a child to take responsibility for our life.

We suffer because we assume:

  • “They should understand my pain.”

  • “They should fix my struggles.”

  • “They should treat me well.”

  • “They should give me peace.”

  • “They should be mature.”

But why should they?

They are children —


they don’t know better.

The moment we realise this,


blame dissolves


and clarity begins.


🌟 The Only True Caretaker: The Divine

There is only One


who knows how to hold our:

  • struggles

  • wounds

  • disappointments

  • heartbreak

  • loneliness

  • fears

  • karmic lessons

  • emotional baggage

and turn them into strength, purpose, and peace:


The Divine.

The Divine understands every corner of our consciousness


in a way no human ever can.

When we surrender our life to the Divine,


we finally place our heart in thesafest hands.

The Divine guides the “children” around us,


protects our path,


aligns situations,


and corrects what needs correction


without letting us fall.


💛 The Final Realisation

“Humans are children in this game of life.


If we expect them to handle our pain or struggles,


they will treat us like toys — not out of cruelty,


but out of immaturity.”

Therefore:

  • Don’t blame anyone.

  • Don’t make anyone responsible.

  • Don’t expect anyone to rescue you.

Your life is your responsibility.


Your healing is your responsibility.


Your liberation is your responsibility.

And when you surrender that responsibility to the Divine,


You rise into a life that no child can shake.


 
 
 

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